Happy New Year!
Yeah, I know, I’m late to the party. That’s been happening a lot lately. The last couple of months have certainly been an example of when life gets in the way.
First—five weeks of pneumonia, including a few days in the hospital, while my husband suffered from bronchitis and my youngest had a painful double ear infection with a ruptured eardrum. That was a good time.
I was healthy enough to run the Ozarks Romance Authors meeting in December, but probably pushed myself too hard in the process and suffered a bit of a relapse the next week.
As I gradually became functional again, I focused on getting ready for the holidays. My boys are three and six, so Christmas is still a magical time. Lights on the house, a tree dripping with ornaments, cookies, presents—the list goes on and on, and I wasn’t going to let my boys miss out on any of it, no matter how sick Daddy and I were. The toughest part was taking them to see Santa without killing ourselves in the process, but we got it done. Phew.
The next task was moving out of the photography studio I’d been leasing the last few years. While I was sick, I did some hard thinking about my priorities and made the difficult decision that it was time to cut my overhead and downsize back to a home-based business. My lease was up at the end of December, so no matter how bad the timing was, it had to get done.
Now I just had one last major hurdle. As president of Ozarks Romance Authors, I was largely responsible for organizing and running the annual Mega Critique Group and Write-In Event we co-sponsored with Sleuths’ Ink Mystery Writers on January 4. Several days disappeared in a blur of lists and e-mails and all the little behind-the-scenes tasks that crop up when you’re running an event. Thank goodness I had a great support team! We had a fantastic day, as always.
When I got home from the event that evening, I immediately noticed that the house smelled smoky. Apparently, my husband tried to burn down the kitchen while boiling water for tea. For the record, he’s an excellent cook and knows his way around the kitchen. Obviously, watching the boys all day imploded his brain. There’s just no other explanation.
The next day, the polar vortex hit with its snow and arctic temperatures. That was fine. After all that activity, I was perfectly happy to be confined to my nice, warm house. Unfortunately, that meant my boys were confined to the house too, with day after day of school cancellations. My Facebook timeline filled with humorous memes about frustrated parents wanting to devour their young. I could relate.
Even more unfortunately, a frozen pipe burst, causing minor flooding in a few rooms downstairs. At this point, we’d had fire, flood and plague. What was next, locusts? Famine?
So there’s my rather windy explanation for why I haven’t posted anything lately. Things seem to be getting back to normal now (knock on wood). We’re all reasonably healthy, I have every reason to expect my boys will be in school this week and several days have passed without any new disasters. Life is good.
I’d like to say that through all of this, I followed my own advice about what to do when life gets in the way and continued working on my book, The Amulet of Isis, through hell and high (or frozen) water. Not so much. But after almost two months of neglect, I made significant progress on my manuscript this week. I tackled some of the trickier editing issues and added another 2,500 words. By Wednesday, I plan to have it ready to send to the next—and probably final—round of beta readers before I begin querying and submitting. Woohoo!
Maybe after that I’ll finally get around to my New Year’s resolutions.
You have had a chaotic few months! But 2014 promises to be spectacular. Looking forward to it!
Me too! Despite a somewhat rough ending, 2013 was still pretty great.
Onward and upward. Looks like you got your crap out of the way. Bring on the good stuff! 🙂
Let’s hope!
Oh, Sharon, I’m so sorry you were ill for so long. Thank goodness you’re better now. The moved to home business may just be what you need. You’re a terrific photographer but you’re also a terrific writer. This will cut down on commute time for one of those ‘jobs.! Good luck.
I think it was the right choice. I’m definitely giving something up by letting the studio go, but I’m also giving up a lot of overhead and hassle.
When one door closes another one opens. Your writing & photography is still there. It won’t affect world peace if you step back and take your time. At least your life is exciting!
It is that! 🙂
Wow. All I can think is that “Normal” life is going to seem like a breeze after your complicated December.
I hope so! I could use an uncomplicated month. 🙂
I adore your book, even if I only get to hear snippets of it. I’m sure it will get snatched up pretty quickly. So happy things seem to be on the mend. You’re amazingly strong to have endured so much.
Thank you, Davonne. I hope you’re right!
Just a couple of words from “Annie” “Tomorrow, tomorrow, the sun’ll come up tomorrow.
Yes, it will! And really, it’s only a little cloudy today. Not truly stormy. Thank you, Pat!
You sure handle stress well, Sharon. Never would have guessed you had all that going on during the Mega Critique. You look so well organized and polished as always.
LOL Thank you, Shirley. I certainly tried!
I guess that’s what they call life. Look at the bright side, you’re still vertical and above ground.
The vertical part’s questionable, but I’m definitely above ground. Lots to be thankful for.
Wow. I have no excuses for way I don’t get things done. You are amazing to keep going.
We all have excuses lol. And plenty of people have it far worse than I do, even if the last couple of months have been a little rocky. Thank you for you kind words, though!
Man – what an end to a year. I’m so glad things are on the upturn.
At least I hope they are! I’ve had one more complication since I posted this–swollen cartilage connecting my ribs to my sternum. I guess two months of pneumonia coughing has been rough on my chest wall.
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Time to start checking my own goals for the year.
You’ve got a lot to look forward to this year, Chris!